A Letter to a Bride-to-be Sis

Sisters Love

Dear Didi,

The years have just flipped like the pages in a book and here we have our life turned completely upside down. Even though it still feels like a moment of two or three days but surely it holds much more to it. I still remember the time when this marriage proposal came walking towards you. You were so excited and at the same time nervous too. For us, the feelings were mutual. There were differences in our thought but nothings bad that end well. And here we are there beside you, supporting you and there for you always. That’s what sisters are for, right? I still remember the time we were small and I being the youngest had all the perks of it. The time when I use to persuade our aunt that I’m not feeling well and she use to convince you to do my homework. Remember, how much pissed off you use to get on me? haha. All those memories are safe in our heart right from playing ghar ghar, draping mom’s dupatta as a saree, studying together to holding each other’s secrets. But now is the time when your life is going to change completely – A new place, a new family, new traditions and a new life. We can understand the pressure upon you and believe me someday or the other, every girl has to go through this strain. It is astonishing how a girl melds herself in her new life. A girl who never thought about the time has now become responsible and puts her family first in making any decision for her. I can’t imagine what feelings you must be going through at this particular moment but I just want you to know, we are here for you now and forever. You might go distance apart from us but our hearts are and always will be connected to one another.

Your Notorious Lil-Sis,

Vrushu

Friendship – A Relation Beyond the Universe

Do you know the one thing that completes our School and College days? What is that which makes us miss those wonderful time we had during our childhood or teenage days? Its not the institutions nor the teachers, its the Friendship. The Friends with whom we have shared all those memories that makes us relive those days. 

Friends do play an important role in everyone’s life. They are our second family. We meet various people during our life journey. Some touch our hearts, some are just passing cloud and some are a part of our soul. These people teach us some of the important lessons of our life. That is the reason why we are always said to choose our friends wisely. They do play a crucial role in molding our lives. 

Nowadays relationships are broken by a single ‘UnFriend’ button. Yes! Though these seems rude but thats the bitter truth of our life. We all have build a huge wall around ourselves- a wall of Ego and Negativism. Why have we priortorized Ego over Love? Are relationships so easy to let go with a click of a button? No! Right? It’s time to  let go off this materialized world and bring out your inner self that is more happy in the happiness of others and you will see a new world revolving around you. 

Life now is unpredictable and so are people but that doesn’t make them bad, they are different! We have always seen that after a particular age we tend to take a backseats in relationships with friends while managing the rollar coaster ride between other relations.

 Friendship is a bond that is beyond this universe. These bonds are always special to us because it is beyond the relation of blood.

Writing – An Escape From Reality…!!!

writing is a therapy

Hello, Good morning Peeps!

Who all feel to have a life on your terms without the unwanted interference? Quite a direct question but the answer to this question will have a deep impact on your life.

I’m sure we all want a life where no one has the right to dictate us what to do, how to do it, and when to do it.That’s what we all want, right? And the truth is that writing can afford us such freedoms and luxuries. So why not try your hands on it?

It feels great for finally having an open forum to put down my thoughts. Over the years, I expressed my feelings to someone who was loyal enough that still hold all my stories and emotions hidden in it. Before you make any guesses let me tell you, my treasure box who holds so much inside it – my personal Diary. Yes! I can truly say my personal diary is my secret keeper.

At the tender age of 13, I became keen to write about each and every moment of my life. And it is so wonderful to relive those memories through my diary now. At a certain point in Life, we all have some or the other memories stored inside it. The most amazing thing about personal diary is that it is a very good listener. It might not give you any advice or help you find a solution but still having it with you will make you feel good because, at times we all need, is an ear to our problems.

As we all know that a true friend is always there beside you for your good as well as bad times, comforts you when you are low and grasps your thoughts when you’re flooded with them. That’s exactly what your diary does.

You can share your joy as well as cry out your pain with it and all it will do is listen to you very carefully. There is also a different comfort zone because every time you express your emotions, it will make you feel peaceful inside out. It is the best companion you can have with you.

Writing is an expression. You open your heart on a piece of paper and express it through words. It’s like having our whole life kept safely inside a treasure box that everyone is excited to open but only you have an access to it. (Unless someone accidently or purposely reads it down.)

That’s all for today. Stay tuned for more wordy thoughts

Ps: Excuse if any blunder or errors since this is my first blog